What's The Worst That Could Happen?
Remember this story from the start? Remember were talking about bookending, about to do some of that on stage, now you've seen the story, right. How we curate it, how we got in that situation, I thought I was gonna win that night. Honestly, I was telling the story, and I went early and all my friends were like, "Oh, you're gonna win." My friend literally as I walk by him, "Oh, you're gonna win." I was winning all the way until the end, for the whole night. Then right at the last minute, this lady told a story and it was brilliant. And she won. And I was like, ah, how am I gonna end this book now? That's kinda the end of that one. I thought it might be a cool ending to this whole experiment. Ironically I met this girl four months later, I was talking to her, and I was like you did really well that night. You know there was like four comedians in that competition, you beat them all, like how did you do it? Did you read any books? Where did you get information? She was like, "Oh, I read t...
his one book. "It was really helpful. "Let me pull up the notes. "It was called Seven Comedy Habits, "by a guy called David Nihill." And I was like that's my book. (laughing) I couldn't believe it. I took a photo with her and I sent it to my friends. I was like you will not believe what's happening here. Literally, my stuff. Couldn't believe it. So I got a good kick off that. But then, and I could never have anticipated that, this is just me telling a story that night. But as it happens a couple of weeks later, I got contacted by a producer of a large TEDx event, TEDx Marin, one of the longest running ones here. And he said, "Hey, I'd like you "to come and speak at this TED event. "Would you be interested?" And I was thinking oh that would be a pretty cool ending for the ol' book. And I was like hold on a minute. I have a friend, Arosh, who suffered a spinal cord injury that got me into all this mess in the first place, and he has a pretty epic story to tell. And he just told it to an audience for the second time ever recently, and I have the link to it. Can I send it to you? So Arosh's first talk that I helped work on him with, not to make it funny, just to use these same techniques that you've learned to put it in there. The first talk he spoke before Guy Kawasaki, in front of 300 Silicon Valley CEOs. The second talk he got a write up in Forbes because a reporter saw him using a little memory palace before he went on stage. And was curious what memorization techniques he was using. His third talk now is about to be way cooler. So this guy booked him to speak at TEDx Marin, and I was backstage as he was giving his talks. He managed to tell them how for one whole year he dedicated himself not to walking again but just to the smaller goal initially of standing again on his own two feet, to be able to propose to his girlfriend eye to eye. And of course she said yes when he did it. So he showed the photo onstage. I'm standing backstage. The audience stood to applaud for 51 seconds. As he actually stood up out of his wheelchair, and this his new bride to be comes out and gives him a little kiss live on stage. And it was super, super emotional to be there. But he was bookending it, he had the rule of three in there, he had the humor moments, he used the memory palace. And it wasn't to be funny. It was to be engaging and get his message across. So if you take nothing else from this class, because it's kinda long and thanks for sticking with us for all this time but, I think it's get out there. That was me on Arosh on the stage. And it's very hard to convey to that the feeling that was in that. It was just cool to watch him crush it so hard and all the progress he's made. And dragging myself out of my own comfort zone at the same time. So if you take nothing away from all this lunacy, start with a story, find the funny part to it, and use comedic writing techniques, or comedy techniques, because at the end of the day, it's your story, you know it better than anybody else, and you never know what will happen when you tell it. So thank you very much. (audience clapping)